Who's someone that comes to mind when you think about humility?
How about former Heavyweight Boxing Champion of the World, Joe Louis?
No? This true story from John Dickson's book Humilitas: A Lost Key to Life, Love, and Leadership will change your mind:
Three young men hopped on a bus in Detroit in the 1930s and tried to pick a fight with a lone man sitting at the back of the vehicle. They insulted him. He didn't respond. They turned up the heat of the insults. He said nothing. Eventually, the stranger stood up.
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Now, I'll admit I was surprised by some of Dickson's ideas in Humilitas. But the more I read, the more Dickson demonstrated that his case makes good logical & biblical sense.
Do you have a favorite idea from the list below? Do you disagree with any of these ideas? Leave your reaction in a comment.
8 Surprising Ideas about Humility
1. Humility presupposes your dignity... which is why it should not be confused with having low self-esteem or being a doormat for others.
2. It is impossible to be humble... without a healthy sense of your own worth and abilities.
3. Healthy self-worth is rooted far more in service than achievement, far more in giving than taking.
4. Humility is willing. It is a choice. Otherwise, it is humiliation.
5. Humility is social. It is not a private act of self-deprecation — banishing proud thoughts, refusing to talk about your achievements and so on... Humility is about the redirecting of your powers [physical, intellectual, financial or structural] for the sake of others.
6. Humility, rightly understood, has often marked the most influential and inspiring people in history. [Likewise,] some of the most influential people in our daily lives exert their influence with humility.
7. Humility is not an ornament to be worn; it is an ideal that will transform.
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- Adam Forrest, Zondervan
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I disagree with this point of view. While it is often true that humble people have a strong sense of self-worth, it would be wrong to think that humility has anything to do with how we see ourselves. Humility is not about putting ourselves down, but neither is it about hiding our true strength, as Joe Louis appears to have done. The humble person recognizes that though he may be strong in one area, everyone he meets is better than him at something. The humble person praises people for their strengths and does not belittle them for their weaknesses.
Posted by: Timothy Fish | January 30, 2012 at 06:13 PM
Tim, I think you raise a good point about the humble person realizing that others have skills he doesn't. Dickson actually talks about this in his book, he calls it "expertise extrapolation." Man, have I felt that temptation! As a writer & knowledge generalist, the temptation is to believe I've become an expert on whatever I read a 1000-word article on. Anyway, back to Joe Louis.
I didn't see Louis as hiding his strength, but as holding himself back from using his power aggressively or violently, and making his dignity known in a peaceful way.
You could make a case that he was still effectively hiding his strength ... until he stood up and gave them his card. I'll admit I find that an impeccably classy move. But I can agree to disagree.
Thanks for sharing, Tim. People like you give this blog its lifeblood.
-Adam
Posted by: Adam Forrest (Zondervan employee) | January 31, 2012 at 10:52 AM